Conversation Face-to-Face

Conversation Face-to-Face.

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VAVOOM PHOTOGRAPHY ~ Lisa Pielechaty

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The End of Conversation?

The virtual world ~ T.V., radio, Internet, i-pods, cell phones, Black Berries ~ has to a great extent replaced one-on-one, face-to-face conversation. The New York Times ran an article announcing that soon one can have a virtual girlfriend on one's cell phone ~ that is, "a computer-generated woman who can converse on thirty-five thousand topics."*

We frequent the pubs, churches, cafes, bookshops ~ the community centers for the most part with the expectation that we will get into an interesting conversation with someone but how many places are conducive to good conversation? Loud music, crowds, multiple big screens ~ all compete for our attention.

A Neat Little Bookshop customer, while looking for books on humor, revealed that he is in Toastmasters International. One of the requirements of members in their quest for good communication is a series of speeches on humor.

We believe the real world is still out there. One just has to take the time to find it!

*Stephen Miller, Conversation, A History of a Declining Art, Yale University Press, 2006.
http://www.toastmasters.org/

Good Conversation

There is a host of world-wide literary clubs, Conversation Cafes, Socrates Cafes, university and college libraries ~ and then there is The Neat Little Bookshop. In a used-book shop, there is a limitless array of topics that inspire spontaneous conversations.

Christopher Phillips, founder of the Scorates Cafes (it is worth a Google), hopes that if people participate in his cafes, they "will become more sociable."

In his book, Socrates Cafe: A Fresh Taste of Philosophy (2001), he states,"I had become increasingly disturbed by what I perceived as an extreme and pervasive self-absorption and intolerance among people..."

According to Phillips, the main goal of good conversation is to "inspire each person to inquire further to cultivate and discover his/her unique point of view, nothing more and certainly nothing less." Never should conversation become a "vehicle for advice-giving or for winning friends and influencing people. There is never any need to try to force any sort of agreement."

In a bookshop, we regard a coffee pot, a few stools and a table as essentials to good conversation!

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http://philosopher.org/

"Peace is liberty in tranquillity."

~ Cicero, Roman philosopher, statesman, 106 BC - 43 BC.

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Poetry

Neil Paul has actively continued writing and publishing after retiring from his teaching position at Cayuga Secondary School.

We are pleased to host an afternoon with Neil on
Thursday, August 12, 1:30 p.m. at The Neat Little Bookshop, when he will entertain us with readings from some of his recent work and, with a little encouragement, perhaps he will recite some of his favourite poetry from earlier writings.

Watch for details ~ more to follow! Our Fascinating Personalities Series. Everyone welcome.

Good Conversation

Among the pleasures of a used-book shop are the interesting and engaging conversations that take place in it.

The Roman philosopher, Cicero, may have understood what constitutes good conversation. He said, "Conversations are for the most part about domestic business or public affairs or else the study and teaching of the arts."*
He goes on to say that "Even if the discussion begins to drift to other matters, make an effort to call it back to the subject; but we should do so according to the company: for we do not at all times enjoy the same subjects in the same way."

We like to think that a used-book shop promotes conversation. A bookshop ~ where the coffee pot is always on ~ where friends and family meet ~ is as a place where a limitless range of subjects trigger conversation.
Tomorrow: More on Conversation.

*Stephen Miller, Conversation ~ A History of a Declining Art, Yale University Press, 2006.

REIKI by shiko: Because the horse died

REIKI by shiko: Because the horse died

Our friend and follower, Shiko, relates her view of our universe through photographs and poetry.
Although languages may differ, pictures are universal.
Shiko e-mails us from Toyko, Japan. Thank you for your volunteer movement, beautiful friend.